Sunday, July 25, 2021

The More You Fail The More You Grow


"We need to accept that we won't always make the right decisions that we will screw up royally sometimes.=Understanding that failure is not the opposite of success; it's a part of success,'

-Arianna Huffington


 It is impossible to live without making any mistakes in our life. As it said, the one who has never made a mistake is the one who has never done anything. Living that way is like you are not living at all. 


We learn from mistakes, and the more we make mistakes, the more we grow. However, it is easier said than done; when we face failure, it is hard to embrace it, but most of us tend to let the failure ruin our life instead of using it as an opportunity to grow.


Many things in life require us to fail before we can succeed. The babies need to learn to fall before they can learn how to walk. And if a baby gave up after the first walk, she would never learn how to walk. Instead, she falls but gets back up again and again until she can walk.


The baby's parents know that someday their baby will finally walk independently after she learned to fall. It would be great to adopt this idea when we have to go through tough times in life. And see ourselves as the parents who see their baby that no matter how many times the baby falls, she will manage to get up and finally walk!






Tuesday, April 27, 2021

Quote and Inspiring Words About Do Not Give Up On Yourself


 "You are a fighter. Look at everything you have overcome. Don't give up now."

-Olivia Benson


Life is not easy, but it is packed with ups and downs. No one always has a smooth life. Everyone has been through tough times in life, that we often tend to forget about this fact. 


When we face difficulties so many times, we let ourselves wallow in misery too long! The more we can't accept reality, the more we are unhappy. 


But what if we broaden our perspective by accepting reality and understanding that we can't control things and other people's thoughts and behaviors? We can control our reactions and thoughts. 


We can't change the past; what already happened, we can't undo it, but what we can do is do our best today. We can be a better person than we were yesterday. 



Most importantly, self-love is vital. Learn to forgive ourselves; everybody makes mistakes that make us grow. 


Last but not least, don't let what you don't have to make you forget what you have. How far you have come, what you have been through to make you become who you are today. You are stronger than you think you are. Never give up! 




Wednesday, March 31, 2021

How Do You Appreciate And Value Yourself

 "Do not struggle to be appreciated by others. Learn to appreciate yourself."

-Unknown


Self-love is very vital that we tend to forget to think about it seriously. We always look for love and approval from others. 


We try to please people because we want to be liked, loved which makes us forget about being our true selves. 


Living that way won't make us happy; it's like we put our happiness in other people's hands. 


When we learn to appreciate ourselves, we no longer seek love and approval from others; instead, we look for it inside. 


And when we start to know our worth and love ourselves, we are responsible for our happiness. We become the true self that we will no longer compare ourselves to others.


The more we appreciate ourselves, the more we become confident, which will make others appreciate us the way we are. 





Thursday, March 11, 2021

Choose Your Destiny


 "Life is a journey that has a lot different paths, but any path you choose, use it as your destiny."

-Unknown


You have only one life, and how you spend it is up to you because you are the one who knows yourself best. And being yourself will make you live a happier, more fulfilling, and meaningful life.


Being yourself starts with loving yourself and knowing your worth; if you don't love yourself and don't know your worth, you can't love others.


Most importantly, you are not born into this world for living someone else's life or allow other people to influence or determine your choices. You don't try to please other people's expectations.


But you are born into this planet to live your life for yourself. You have the right to choose your path, do things, and be your true self because you know that you are the only one who can choose your destiny.







Saturday, February 27, 2021

Inspiring Quote To Inspire You To Love Yourself And Know Your Worth


 "Your self-worth is determined by you. You don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are."

-Beyonce


I think self-encouragement is vital for us; we don't need to seek anyone to do for us, but it is something that we can do for ourselves. 


To encourage self means we love ourselves and we are the one who knows our self-worth. And we need to forgive ourselves as well.


When we know our worth, we no longer seek approval and validation from others because we can see it within us, not from the outside. 


And the more we can see ourselves from inside, the more we are in tune with ourselves, and finally, we will become who we truly are.







Tuesday, February 2, 2021

Life Is A Journey That We Must Travel Despite Difficulties

 "Life is a journey that must be traveled no matter how bad the roads and accommodations." 

-Unknown 


I have been thinking about my life that it's all about the destination, and whenever I make it there, I will be happy. However, I have just realized that maybe what I have been thinking might be wrong. 


As I look back on my life, I have learned that my destination is endless; when I finally reach my goal, I always set another new plan. And when I am still on my way to my destination where I face obstacles, I always feel unhappy and discouraged. So many times, I almost give up.


Because I look forward to reaching the destination that makes me forget to enjoy the journey, and I forget those people I meet along my way, including the beautiful views that I miss enjoying. 


From this moment, I will be a new person; I will learn to enjoy the journey. I will appreciate the process and see it as a reward because life is a journey that we must travel despite difficulties that will make us grow. I will enjoy all the ups and downs along my way.













Saturday, January 2, 2021

Your Past Does Not Define You


" Don't let your past define you. Let it shape you into the person you want to become."

-Unknown


Everyone has a past, mistakes and has been through tough times in life. No one always has a smooth and perfect life, but sometimes, it can be a bumpy ride along the way.


So many times in our lives that we spend so much of our time dwelling on past mistakes. It's just like we relive the past, and it is not useful; it will only hold us back.


I know sometimes it's hard. When we try not to think about what has happened to us, it's not something that we can change overnight. But it needs practice and most of all we need to train our thoughts.


As it said " If you can control your thoughts, you can control your life." But so many times, we let our thoughts control us. That because we unconsciously think our thoughts ,and often they are unproductive and self-abusive. 


We are not our past mistakes or not our stories. But we are more than what we think we are, and we can be anything we choose  to become. 










 

Friday, January 1, 2021

May All Your Dreams Come True and All Your Hopes are Fulfilled

 

"New Year brings us a new opportunity that is waiting for us to pursue. And it is a chance for us to begin again. No dream is too big to achieve. Anything is possible. It's time to make your dream come true. I hope this is your best year yet. Happy New Year."

-Belle


I want to start New Year Day with a positive thought, inspiration, hope, faith, and passion because I believe these things will guide me in the right direction.


In my life, I have failed at life many times. And as I look back on my life, I realize that the end of something will always bring me to the beginning of something better.


And everything happens for a reason; sometimes, we don't get something we want; it doesn't mean we don't deserve it, but because we deserve better.


I believe that we can become anything we want as long as we have faith and passion. Most importantly, we need to keep walking and never give up until we achieve it.





End of Year Reflection : Be Thankful For Whatever Happened Over The Past Year

 

"Be thankful for whatever happened over this past year. And believe that everything happens for a reason. Be open to any opportunities that the New Year may bring."

-Belle


Today is the last day of the year 2020(I wrote a post-draft on Dec 31,2020, but it is published on Jan1,2021 ), and as it said, every end will always bring a new beginning  of something. 


Whatever happened to you this past year, be thankful for it because it meant to shape you to become a better and stronger person. 


We can't go back to change the things that already happened. But we can learn from them. 


Whatever your new year's resolution is, don't forget attitude is everything. The right attitude will guide you in the right direction.