Sunday, November 6, 2022
Saturday, October 15, 2022
"Love yourself, forgive yourself, live your life the way you want, and be happy."
I am the one who constantly ponders about happiness in life, and sometimes I think I know how to make myself happy.
I have been spending a lot of my time finding a way to live my life happily. I have been reading many books and researching, including practicing spirituality. I have to admit that all of them are useful. And help to bring me back on track.
I have learned that to be a happy person, you must be yourself, and to be yourself, you must live your life the way you want. It may seem simple, but it is not as easy as it looks in practice.
To be yourself, you must spend time with yourself and see your true self. It all happens to your internal that external factors don't impact you.
To live your life the way you want is to be you and do the things that make you happy. You are the only person entitled to live your life; you don't need others to tell you how to live.
To be happy, you are responsible for your happiness. You create it. Being happy or unhappy depends on how you choose your thoughts and perceptions and react to external factors.
Sunday, October 9, 2022
"Remember that unhappiness does not come from what is going on in your life. But, it comes from the way you think about it. "
If I ask everyone what do they want most in their life? I believe most of them will answer they want to live happily. It seems very easy, but it is not easy, as it is said.
Because we always base our happiness on external factors like frame, money, career success, happiness in love and relationship, etc.
We tend to forget that external factors are uncontrollable and expect things to happen as we expect.
Unfortunately, most of the time, things didn't go as we expected. And we are disappointed; we keep pondering why history keeps repeating itself repeatedly! That we question ourselves when we finally live happily.
What if we change our perspective on life to be happy is not determined by what's happening around us but by what's happening inside us?
It doesn't matter what happens to us, but what we think about it matters.
Because nothing lasts forever, happiness and sadness don't last forever either.
Tuesday, August 30, 2022
"If you love yourself and know your worth, you will get through any difficulty in your life. "
Life is not easy; it is full of ups and downs that you must face throughout your journey. Sometimes you have a very good day, and sometimes you have a very bad day. As Buddha said, nothing lasts forever-suffering and happiness don't last forever. But you tend to forget this fact.
You feel happy when things go as expected, but you feel unhappy when things don't go as expected. And looks like you have never learned that you can't control other people's speeches, thoughts, and actions. And you can't control outside situations, what will happen.
Human thoughts and actions are unpredictable. So many times, we are hurt by people's actions or speeches. And it has happened to me many times that I have learned the hard way.
When people let me down, underestimate me, or say something hurtful to me like I am not good enough. I must admit that it hurts, but I don't let that feeling define me. I tell myself I am more than my feeling. I know my worth, and I don't need their validation.
I know I am not perfect, and I have made mistakes often because I am still learning. I may fail many times, but after I fail, I am the one who picks myself up. I must be the first one who encourages myself. Who else will if I don't love myself and don't know my worth?
I have learned that the power of self-love is vital. If you love yourself enough, you will not let yourself down or wallow in sadness for a long time. Because you know that you deserve better.