Saturday, October 15, 2022

Live Your Life The Way You Want, And Be Happy.

 "Love yourself, forgive yourself, live your life the way you want, and be happy."

-Belle Aronson

I am the one who constantly ponders about happiness in life, and sometimes I think I know how to make myself happy. 

I have been spending a lot of my time finding a way to live my life happily. I have been reading many books and researching, including practicing spirituality. I have to admit that all of them are useful. And help to bring me back on track. 

I have learned that to be a happy person, you must be yourself, and to be yourself, you must live your life the way you want. It may seem simple, but it is not as easy as it looks in practice. 

To be yourself, you must spend time with yourself and see your true self. It all happens to your internal that external factors don't impact you. 

To live your life the way you want is to be you and do the things that make you happy. You are the only person entitled to live your life; you don't need others to tell you how to live.

To be happy, you are responsible for your happiness. You create it. Being happy or unhappy depends on how you choose your thoughts and perceptions and react to external factors. 

Sunday, October 9, 2022

Real Happiness is found within


"Remember that unhappiness does not come from what is going on in your life. But, it comes from the way you think about it. "

Belle Aronson

If I ask everyone what do they want most in their life? I believe most of them will answer they want to live happily. It seems very easy, but it is not easy, as it is said. 

Because we always base our happiness on external factors like frame, money, career success, happiness in love and relationship, etc. 

We tend to forget that external factors are uncontrollable and expect things to happen as we expect. 

Unfortunately, most of the time, things didn't go as we expected. And we are disappointed; we keep pondering why history keeps repeating itself repeatedly! That we question ourselves when we finally live happily.

What if we change our perspective on life to be happy is not determined by what's happening around us but by what's happening inside us? 

It doesn't matter what happens to us, but what we think about it matters. 

Because nothing lasts forever, happiness and sadness don't last forever either.