When You Love Yourself, You No Longer Seek Validation and Approval

When you love yourself, you know your worth; you won't seek the other's approval because you don't care what other people think of you, but what you think about yourself matters more than what others think about you.

When you love yourself, you know that happiness is from within; you are no longer rely on others  to make you happy, and the circumstances  can't affect you either. 

When you love yourself, you start looking inside yourself; then, your vision will become clear. When you can look inside your own heart, you know what you want, you begin to live a more meaningful life. 

When you love yourself, you know how to make yourself happy, and you no longer seek happiness from the external. You are not desperate for being filled from the outside; you begin to take care of yourself that makes you look good and feel good, and you start to attract better things and better people. 

Your life starts to change. Everything begins with you and how you feel about yourself.

"Everything changes when you begin to love yourself. You no longer send out energy of desperation or need to be filled from the outside.

You become a powerful source within yourself that attracts better. The more you love yourself the less you seek validation and approval."

-Idil Ahmed

Stop Chasing Someone, Start Loving Yourself

Love yourself enough to let go of someone who doesn't care about you. When you love someone with your whole heart, you can do anything to maintain your relationship.

You give him all you've. However, if it still not enough. Maybe it's time to move on to someone or something better.

Stop chasing him and start loving yourself. When you start taking care of yourself, you will begin to attract someone or something better.

"If you don't love yourself, you will always be chasing after people who don't love you either.

-Mandy Hale

Challenging Yourself To Control The Way You Respond To What's Happening

In our life, there is nothing more important than to live happily. 

Everyone wants to be happy; however, most of us forget that our happiness is from within.We continuously allow external factors to affect us.

We often try to control people and situations, and when they don't turn out as we expected, we get upset. On the opposite, when things go our way, we feel so happy. Indeed, it is natural; we are human beings when we get what we want we are so glad, but when we don't get what we want we are disappointed! 

But in real life, there are a few chances that things will go our way, we can't control everything, and if we are dependent on our circumstances, our joy will be lost.

What if we change our approach to life by challenging ourselves to control how we react to uncontrollable things instead of trying to control them or let them affect us. 

"When you can't control what's happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what's happening. That's where your power is.

Quote to help you get over your past

Life is not easy, we all have been through a  lot. We made mistakes, or someone we loved betrayed us. Many things hurt and disappointed us because things didn't go our way. 

As we look back on those hurts, scars, and bruises, we wish we could go back and fix them. So many times, we kept blaming ourselves for the mistakes.

Dwelling on the past, it's just like we let the darkness from the past block the light of joy in today and it does not make things better. Past is past; we can't change or undo it, but what we can do it to start from where we are and make our today better! 

"Life doesn't allow us to go back and fix what we have done wrong in the past, but it does allow us to live each day better than our last."

Unknown

Quote to make you appreciate today

We may experience unexpected events that don't turn out to be as we have planned in our lives.

We were disappointed that we didn't get what we wanted, or someone we love hurt us.

So often that we waste our time dwelling on the past that prevents us from enjoying our present moment. We tend to forget that past is past, it can't be changed or undone.

Sometimes we find ourselves doubting how far we can go, and when we compare our lives to others, it discourages us because we focus on the wrong things. 

What if we change our perspective? By start focusing on what we have, and it doesn't matter how far we can go, but what matters is how far we have come.

When we focus on what we have, we appreciate life; we learn to live for today and make the most of it. And believe that something good is about to happen. 

To be happy, you must:

Let go of what has gone, be grateful for what remains, and look forward to what is coming next.

-Unknown

It's My Journey!

If you want to start doing something but you still doubt yourself, and you are not sure about the decision you have made. Just remember this:

Life is a journey; not a destination. It's about what we experience, who we meet along the way. 

Most of all, bad experiences give us lessons to learn, good experiences give us good memories. 

Life is not always easy and smooth. We may fall, we may stumble, but we have to keep picking ourselves back up. Then keep moving forward, and never give up!

" I don't know where this journey will lead, but I know it will be exciting and filled with adventure."

-Unknown

I love Being With Myself

As I am getting older, I have just realized that I enjoy spending time alone. Whenever I have my free time, I will be with myself rather than go out with my friends. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean I don't like to be with other people, but recently I just love to be with myself.

When I have more time for myself, I come to know what I really want in my life. We live in an era of social media, every day since we wake up until we go to bed, we are bombarded by information. We are so obsessed with social media, we are curious to know what other people are doing, and we also want to let the world know what we are doing. 

I used to enjoy spending time on social media, but recently. I have learned that the more I spend time on it, the less I am happy because there is so much information to consume that I can't manage myself to stop reading. And by the time I realize that I should stop reading, I find myself wasting too much time without doing anything productive!

So now I have known that spending more time with myself, it really makes me happier. I enjoy reading tons of books and never get tired of them. Sometimes I go outside walking along the beach, enjoy seeing the waves, flowers, birds, etc. The more I spend time with myself, the more I stay connected with it, and when I choose to focus on the inside, I tend to be less frustrated and less be affected by the circumstances. 

" Spend more time with yourself; you will like who you are.

  -Unknown